Kingdom of Saudi Arabia (KSA) is only place in the world where I
wanted to go since I was a small child. My inspiration was an Azan from
HARAM everyday that I used to watch on my local TV channel PTV (Pakistan
Television) since my childhood. So I always wanted to see this place personally
where everyone has same color, same cloths and have no apparent difference
among them.
So I got a chance after 27 years and my biggest wish seem to
come true when my husband called me from United Kingdom and told me that he
have got an offer for job in Jeddah Saudi Arabia and asked for my opinion, if
its fine to join… I was like, what you are waiting for.
That was one of happiest day of my life; it seems to be a
long-awaited dream coming true. I was so excited that all at once I informed my
parents about the news and they were extremely delighted when I told them
I was going to apply soon. They increased my joy saying, it’s a wish of every
Muslim of the world to visit this Holy place and you are one of the lucky
people of the world if u get a chance to live and visit Makah. My parents were
not afraid about me as I will be going that far from them first time in my life
but they were happy that at least I am with my husband and I am going to KSA.
I was a working lady so I also informed my friends about leaving
them soon they were sad as we were working together from last 5 years but also
they were very happy for me and asked me for regular updates about KSA and
asked me to pray for them when I will be standing in front of Ka’aba(the House
of God) . Who ever come to know about this was contacting me and
asked me to pray and I felt that I was extremely lucky to get to go to Saudi
Arabia.
My husband came back to Pakistan from UK within a month and
after usual visa process I have to fly from Pakistan to Jeddah Saudi
Arabia on 24th of September. We were not sure if we will get visa that quickly
as many countries have long process for visa but we were happy that everyone in
Saudi Arabian Embassy in Islamabad Pakistan was very helping and the process
was very simple and quick.
As my time to leave for KSA was approaching, I experienced mixed
feeling of excitement with a little bit fear in my heart. I was happy that I
will visit Haram in Makah and Medina but I fear about all that I have heard
about life in KSA. I was told that there are a lot of strictness in KSA for
females. Females are always kept inside houses they are not allowed to leave at
all without MEHRAM and they have to leave with Abayas. Females are not allowed
to talk men etc. As this is what Islam teaches us to do; not to leave homes or
talk to men purposelessly. Even being a Muslim lady I have not experienced any
such restriction in my country. It frightened me as Saudi Arabian
society was built on strong Islamic laws.
Finally I was on airport and we were flying to KSA via Islamabad
city to Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, It was my first impression on Saudi Arabian Airlines flight.
We boarded the aero plane, and almost all of the old and young women in flight
were already in niqabs and abayas even all were from Pakistan.
I was beginning to realize how deeply Islam is built into Saudi
Arabian society; I watched some Islamic messages on TVs attached on walls
inside plane and also heard prayer to begin our journey and visited room to
pray in and majority of people on flight were reciting verses from Quran and
had rosaries in their hands.
I was feeling happy as how by living in Saudi Arabia the life
style of people has changed, as I have not seen such scene outside this aero
plane. People seem to be practicing more Islam and I was praying if
I can be firm in my belief and practice Islam in every aspect of my life.
After a 4 hour and 57 minutes flight, we arrived in Jeddah Saudi Arabia. First thing that I felt when I
stepped out of aero plane was PEACE, it was everywhere, I
can see peace on faces , I can feel it in air. Everything was done peacefully.
There was no shouting or screaming and no hustle and bustle at all, that I left
on airport back home.
There was clear difference in airports from where we left. Jeddah
International airport was modern, I will say huge and populated with many women
and men with pilgrimage wearing white dressed called ihram,
women were covered in white or black abaya from all over the world. Mostly local men were
wearing in white color their traditional long shirt like dress called thobe.
It was my first experience when I saw people from all around the
World under one roof having different features and speaking bizarre languages
as I cannot figure out even a single word they were speaking. I do not feel I
can meet so many people from so many different countries of the World except in
Saudi Arabia, as Muslims from every part of the World come to perform Hajj and
Umrah. It was not season for Hajj but still so many people were here to perform
their Umrah.
The friend of my husband have to pick us but he was bit late so
we have to wait for him and I was just walking in different sections of airport
to see things around and also observe people from different cultures ,
meanwhile my husband was looking for his friend. While wondering around I kept
my husband in my eyes as I was bit conscious may be someone approach me and ask
me where was my mahram .. But this thing never happened so far.
I was curious to see if all females were covering their faces
and if it was a must , but it was a sigh of relief for me that this
thing was not true and I have also seen many ladies who were travelling alone
there was no male with them so two things were false straight away on airport.
At last the friend arrived and we came out of airport, the thing
that I realized now about Saudi Arabia was, it is far hotter than I thought. We
came in September and it was 9:45pm local time but the temperature was around 35 degree Centigrade or even more. The other thing that I noticed was the city
was very well-organized; roads were beautiful, wide and clean with rows of date
trees. I was expecting there will be no sign of greenery and there will be an
unending desert everywhere. But I will appreciate the hard work of Saudi people
who worked hard to grow a lot of trees and did a lot of plantation in this dead
desert. Then we left the main road and entered in streets in our way to hotel I
noticed that all streets were filled with different and new models of cars in
every size, big, small, there were lot of huge malls and modern buildings in
our way. Each place was properly air-conditioned, when u enter in cars or
buildings you just forget about the warmth that is burning everything outside.
Now we have to leave for our next destination that was
Rabigh. It was 159.7 KM away from Jeddah and it is in outskirts of Jeddah it
took 1 hour and 39 minutes to get there. I saw many families sitting everywhere
in desert having fun … it seem to me that everyone is out of house sitting in
desert as it was evening. The Rabigh city was quite and small compared to
Jeddah.
My visit to Saudi Arabia teach me a lot about Saudi Arabia,
after I came here I got to know really there is no way to know Saudis or
understand Saudi culture until you spend time here, the things you hear from
people or read in books or papers are far more different than current situation
and mostly things that are told are pages from history now. Saudi Arabia is
much more developed country than we expect as normally we think of KSA if it is
just a desert, I will tell you its not like that despite its worth visiting.
Every facility is available at your door steps, mostly the
system is computerized its very helpful where ever you go. Internet facility is available at very cheap
rates. People are very hospitable and generous. They are all ready to help and
ready to give. Petrol is cheaper than water, sometimes I ask my husband we must
start drinking petrol J as it’s very expensive in Pakistan. Everyone
is fond of travelling and visiting new places, people are travelling a lot
during vacation not only inside but also travel abroad and take families with
them.
Government have given all rights and support to females to work
and progress in every field of life, they have equal opportunities of education
and work. One can find females working everywhere from malls to hospitals, banks
etc.
It’s a worth visiting place, I will share my experiences in
Rabigh city in my next writing. I will be happy to have your feedback to improve
my writing or if you have any suggestion you can leave a comment below.
LONG LIVE SAUDI ARABIA!!!
Andleeb
Best of Luck :) (Y)
ReplyDeletethank u
DeleteSo Well Written Mam :)
ReplyDeletei will like you to share your writing with us as well ,,.... send me something i will also upload with your name
ReplyDeleteLovely writing andleeb and very TRUE picture of ksa
ReplyDeletethank u adeela and thanks 4 ur time... abe tu yeh series ha mery mind ma ayesta ayesta on paper aye g :)
DeleteGreat effort Madam, nice to see such a true sharing. Pray for us as well to visit soon.
ReplyDeletethank u waseem .... I will pray In Shaa Allah ,,, n if u have wish in ur heart i am sure you will visit some day Allah knows better .. when
DeleteWell written Andleeb! (S)
ReplyDeletethank u dear
DeleteHi Anna
ReplyDeleteThis was just the greatest post about Saudi Arabia and your love for the country shone through every word. Now its my turn to ask how I follow you because I want to know more about your marvelous country. You write wonderful and since I can't visit, your description is the next best thing.
Lenie
Hi Lenie
DeleteThank you for such a nice comment...
I will try to write more about Saudi Arabia.... I am happy that you have gone through this Very long post actually...
thank you for your appreciation....
i will try to share some more experiences.
Very lovely Anna.
ReplyDeletethank you Nomase
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