World Teachers' Day

My Great Teacher; Dr. Aslam.

Today while on an airport, waiting for plane to board, I got notification on Facebook for one of my friend's status with this picture. I replied, today is Teacher's Day? Before waiting for her reply I googled to confirm status. There I got, it truly is....... Today 5th October, World Teacher's day, you can check details about the background here. After confirmation, I started to toggle my past memories from my childhood and educational years. Soon I remembered about my teachers. So, here I want to unfold few memories to share with you. Many people came in my life who have great impact on me. My parents, family, friends and my husband. There are many who supported and helped me every time. They guided & taught me lot of values for my future life. 

Surely our parents, grand parents,siblings and close relatives always think about us. They help us to improve. Today I want to remember those who do not have any blood relation directly or indirectly with me and greatly influenced my life, with a real change in my personality.

Dan Rather

"The dream begins with a teacher who believes in you, who tugs and pushes and leads you to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a sharp stick called truth."

I got this from here.

I want to share about my school days when I was an average student of the class but I never liked myself to sit on back benches. Due to unavailability of windows on back side of class. My friends and me mostly managed to sit in the middle of the class room to have good view of outside world through window rather than look attentively towards the teacher & black board. In a day or two teachers always kick my friends and me out of the class as punishment & we make fun of the students who used to come and drink water from the schools water tank right in front of our class. School life was going on and I was very satisfied because at the end of every year I always qualified for the next class with 15th -20th position out of 40 to 45 class fellows. I was in grade seven when after returning school from our summer vacation we came to know that our class teacher was changed.

The previous teacher was very strict also he was well aware of all the students. New class teacher surly required some time to adjust although he was an old man retired from forces. He was very soft & kind. Between we liked to discuss more about his services as a soldier rather than our own syllabus J . I always asked a lot of questions from him about army, about Wars between Pakistan Vs India, about Kargill, Afghan, Russia (which was ongoing) WAR at his time.

After 3 or 4 days, on arrival in class, all were surprised to see what happened in class. He changed all the seats and position & partners in the class. All of our groups with students were broken. I was shocked that I was on first bench now. I do not know when he got impressed and saw a genius in me :) and started asking many questions all the time. I was thinking as I have asked so many questions now this is his turn to take revenge. By with the passage of time ultimately I got that he was dragging me towards studies. Whenever he asked questions  or took any kind of quiz he called me every time with my name ( Andleeb will you say something about this). If I could answer he appreciated me a lot and if I was unsuccessful then he gave me a push to study hard. As a result I started giving attention to my lectures.  I was getting very serious about my studies and was trying to excel. 

As a result I started improving in class I became more focused on studies. He told me that he have strong believe on me that I can compete anyone in the class. He used to talk generally about studies and it's importance while being inside class and outside gave me a lot of time on my character building. Once or twice he played badminton with us during games period. He made very strong connection with all the class, particularly with me (I felt that). Within 3 to 4 months my grades started changing from D to B, B+, A and  A+. He discussed result of my other subjects with me. In school students were divided in four houses for sports. My house for sports was Abu Bakar House but my favorite teacher was always head of Omer House, many times I requested him to change my game's house to Omer house as I wanted to play from his house, but I was never successful. He always encourage my spirit in games. At that time I never thought even for a moment that why he was so kind to me?

I got the answer when I reached my 10th grade. One day I asked him a personal question; "Sir how many kids u have ?" He replied, ”You all are my children.”

I asked again, "No, sir how many kids you actually have in your family?"

He asked me, “Are you not my daughter?”
I said, “ Sure ! I am, but I mean your real children ?”

He said,I" do not have at home" and left quickly from class. I could not understand anything but I was surprised why he left in such unusual way without goodbye to all. After wards when I came to know about reality I felt his pain.

After finishing my school I took admission in a well-reputed college, because of good grades. Thanks to Mr. Aslam for that. I was still connected with my patron, benevolent. He really changed me from an average to promising, shining star of school.  Even now I do not have any idea how smartly he pulled me from an average student to bright one. He actually changed my whole life. After some time I got disconnected with him. Time started passing quickly & I became more involved in studies and our communication was almost finished. I was admitted in Government college and here in Pakistan on government level there is segregation of boys and girls in colleges, being a female mostly we have to deal with female teachers, just few male teachers join in female College. Mostly male teachers teach the boys. That was also another reason I was out of contact with him.

 Once I went and see him in school but came to know that he has left the school. I got his home address & went to his house to meet him. My teacher was very surprised and happy to see me. I wanted to tell him about my distinction in college and wanted to thank him for all his efforts to push me towards a better future. I got to know then that he was alone in his house, his wife died years ago actually having no family at all. He became very happy to see me after years. At that time he was planning to go for umraah & it was our last meeting as he died while performing umrah & he never came back.

He was great man, he was always kind to students & appreciated all, even for very small thing. Some times we believed that he had appreciated too much this time and use to laugh hard after class :) . He had the art to make soldiers to fight and sacrifice their life so he was aware how to generate results form average students, like me J .

I am & I will be always be grateful to him, the way he guided me was amazing. I could never resist admiring him in my heart. This is only because of his unconditional love, care which changed me and shifted me away from the complications of life. Mr. Aslam you will remain in my prayers always , till my last breath. I am remembering you while writing this post and unconsciously , tears roll down my cheeks. I miss you a lot and thank you for everything. 

I have written this post to pay my gratitude for all such great teachers like him. Mr. Aslam played a vital role in my life and taught me, how to pay back, to society and how can I, contribute to the progress. If you believe that some teachers, have not done much for you, but I believe they actually did in their capacity, what they did was a great thing. They have helped and guided you. They have saved you from damages and difficulties, whom you feel to be dependable and reliable.

Do you have such teacher in your life who have changed your life? I would like to hear your feelings about your favorite teacher who was wonderful and great teacher who actually changed your life. Whom you still admire for help and guidance.

Got photos from Facebook.

I hope you will share this post to pay tribute to all those teachers who provided you with quality knowledge to stand in world. 

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Why few Non-Muslim Australian Women are wearing Hijab??

It's all very well to wear the hijab for a day or to stand with your Muslim friends, but really, what you're doing is you're taking a nice photo ... But you're going to take off that scarf and you're going to move back into your life, which is free from the threats and intimidation that Muslim women regularly do face.

Aicha Marhfour is a freelance journalist.

This was the response from Aicha Marhfour, who is a freelance journalist from Melbourne, Australia. You may have come across news of alleged attacks on Muslim women in Australia, because of their appearance. During last week a Muslim woman was physically attacked on train station in Australia.

In response to the ever-increasing number of racist attacks on Muslim women, Mariam Veiszadeh, who is a lawyer and activist, launched a campaign on Twitter, Facebook etc. She asked the women to take a selfie in a hijab to support Muslim women. This campaign was named Women in Solidarity with Hijabis (WISH). After a few days, when it began, it attracted a lot of likes and responses from women taking selfies while wearing a hijab. You can check the tweets and Facebook messages from different Australian women with selfies in hijab here. Many Non-Muslim Australian Women and men have expressed their Solidarity with Hijabis. 

I have read stories of many women who have experienced a lot of annoying people, questioning eyes, while wearing a scarf to stand with Muslim women and show their solidarity.

Some women also expressed their concerns about actions that are not acceptable in Islam, while in Hijab. Some were threatened and questioned about the hijab. A few men also came forward while responding to this call and expressed their solidarity by posting their pictures with hash tag #WISH. We also come across a few negative responses and a few gratuities as well. Throughout the world, Islam is being oppressed, scolded, and crushed, but all must think that, despite all such activities, it is increasing everywhere. A lot of people from around the world are accepting and embracing Islam. The question is, no matter how the media is projecting Islam, many get influenced and try to attack Muslims physically, verbally, as in this case of Aussie Muslim Women, but what was the response of many? They started taking it as against freedom of choice and started donning with hijab. Muslims are targeted , specially women around the world because of their appearance and head scarves. Many get inspiration to study this religion , and when they do so, I do not accept that fact that, Islam do not have power to change hearts, it melts hearts and bring love of God in it.

I believed as much anyone will try to suppress this religion it will come back with a greater boost. 1400 years ago our beloved Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) during in his last sermon in Haj received the revelation of completion of Islam and according to holy book Quran , it is told that Allah has liked Islam for us.

Few women got attacked and a lot came forward to support and if the numbers of attacks will increase he support will come with a massive increase and more people will start thinking and learning about this religion. I think this foolish action benefits Islam in many ways.  I think that such campaigns must fight for justice for victims as well. Otherwise victim will be in the background, and a new thing start taking place. 

Sarah went a step further by wearing a niqab to sport with women wearing religious garments.

I am wondering why the Hijab symbolizes oppression, why it is seen as threatening, to many like me, it is just freedom of choice that represents beauty and humility. 

 I am happy to see many women and men supporting Muslim women by donning the hijab. If they are not scared of Hijab then why others are???

I will quote what Sarah said on #Wish page,'I hope all of the women wearing the hijab or niqab stay strong and safe during these tough times! "

Hijab has special importance in Islam, Muslims have a complete dress code from God. I have written a post related to it, you can check Here.  So if someone is stopping Muslim women from wearing it, it will be hard to digest.

I have shared some wonderful pictures of many brave non-Muslim women who came forward wholeheartedly to show their solidarity and stand with Muslim women. 

Now it’s your turn, what do you think are the factors that people have Islamophobia ?? What do you feel while having a hijabi around you?? Are you ever oppressed by any Hijabi ?? Donning hijab for a few moments is a sign of solidarity ??? Do we really have the right to live our lives as per will with our differences??

Picture are taken for education purposes only, no rights are claimed, if the owner wants any picture removed, contact me. 

Reference  http://stream.aljazeera.com/story/201410032301-0024207?fb_comment_id=fbc_768471673232706_768478639898676_768478639898676#f36c4486b

First Photo by Twitter User @WISHSolidarity.

Photos from Facebook Group : WISH - Women In Solidarity with Hijabis

I hope you will share this post to support Muslim women around the world who are targeted because of their appearance. I feel it's birth right to choose how one want to live. 

Haj Pilgrimage.

I was asked about Haj few days back by one of my friend Lenie, you can know about her from this website. I want to take this opportunity to thank her for giving me such a wonderful idea to write for this amazing spiritual trip to Makkah, Saudi Arabia.

Introduction:

The foundation of Islam is based on five acts, that are performed during our daily life. These acts are considered mandatory for all the Muslims to fulfill. A life of believer is supposed to be according to these deeds. These acts also called the pillars of Islam. These five important deeds on which the building of Islam is standing are:

1.       Faith (Shahadah): This is acceptance and declaration of the fact that there is one God in the universe (Almighty Allah) and Prophet Muhammad ( Peace and blessings be upon him) is His messenger.  It is submission to the will of God.

2.      Prayer(Salat): The ritual prayer (compulsory congregation) that Muslim offers five time a day from dawn to dusk. According to a specific method on specified time.

3.      Alms-giving(Zakat): Zakat (charity) is obligatory for all rich Muslims who have large sums of wealth by the end of year, left with them. They are asked to give away 2.5% of their savings to the poor and needy. This charity goes to needy that can be from the  relatives or out of family.  

4.      Fasting(Sawm): This ritual practice is obligatory  during holy month of Ramadan. Every Muslim , male and female is abstain from food from dawn to dusk. Muslims fast for 30 days in Ramadan.

5.      Hajj: The pilgrimage is a spiritual journey to Makkah, Saudi Arabia which is mandatory for  every Muslim that can bear the cost of the travel and is strong enough to perform this ritual prayer, once in life time.

In this post I will try to write about to the method by which we perform Haj.

What is Haj? What are the feelings of Muslims for this pilgrimage? What are the duties that a Muslim has to fulfill? What this spiritual trip teach Muslims?

The Pilgrimage (Haj):

 The journey for which every Muslim, regardless of gender; male or female, young or old, long for from the time when realize about Islam and its five pillars. This amazing trip need a lot of time , passion and effort. This spiritual journey helps to confirm our commitment to the will of God. Many Muslims throughout the world spend large sum of money and wait for many years to perform this religious duty. The aim of this effort is to show the importance of command a Muslim is given from God. A Muslim leaves behind family, friends, joy, luxuries and all facilities of life and travel in simplest dress to a far of land just to make it clear that he /she is ready to leave everything behind when it comes to duty that is mandatory. Muslim is fully prepared about all the hardships he/she has to face in the way. Keeping in mind each problem; little or big, brings rewards from God and improves grades. 

Hajj is a spiritual ritual that is performed during the last month of Islamic Calendar Zil-Haj. It is a set of different elements or deeds, that are performed from 8^th Zil-Haj till 12^th or 13^th. The present set of elements descend from Prophet Muhammad but date back to Prophet Abraham who first build Ka’aba, with the help of his son Prophet Ismail. He then called people to performed Haj as God commanded him.

The set of rituals(Haj rights) performed at present during five days on different places in Makkah involves.

• Visit to Ka'aba (House of God)
• Mina ( The place where people dwell for few days. They stay at night in Mina in big tents excluding one night that they pass overnight in Muzdalifah)
• Arafat and
• Muzdalifah

This year 2014, 2 million people are performing Haj. The picture from arabnews facebook page shows the massive gathering and enthusiasm of people during hajj. 

 It is  the duty of every Muslim, who has power and wealth, to perform hajj at least once in his/her life time.

First four deeds can be performed anywhere. A Muslim’s journey starts with fifth act, which is Hajj. This act can only be performed in Makkah and its surroundings. It is commonly believed that hajj is the name of prayers 27/7 for 5 days. The people who come from Saudi Arabia perform their Hajj in 5-7 days but for rest of the world it takes 40 days. The rituals are performed during 5-7 days but the people from outside Saudi Arabia stay in Saudi Arabia for 40 days on their Hajj trip. A person can offer verbal or oral prayer during Hajj all the time. But Hajj is not complete without the specified rituals that we have to perform at the specified point around Makkah. It’s not like that you will be sitting on your praying mat for 5 days and Hajj will be done. It is told to be hardest of all the Ibadah ( prayers). You have to accomplish all the elements during 5 days. Each and every person is like running from place to place trying to complete all events during specific time. 

Hajj starts with Niyaah ( intention). First Ihram is worn ( two white long, unstitch  cloth for men-traditional white robe) and women wear normal dresses with abaya, you can check the details of dress code for Muslim women here. . During hajj millions of people travel from across the world towards Makkah and it is believed to be the largest congregation or gathering of people from all parts of the Muslim world in Makkah to perform religious ritual prayer. When any Muslim enters in Ihram then few acts that are legal in normal life are forbidden.

Hajj is believed to be a hard prayer , so it is better to fulfill this duty during young age.  Muslims are asked not to cut hair , not to remove Ihram until hajj is complete(it depends on the type of Hajj that is being observed)  and not to have sex, not to cut nails until sacrifice is done. Females are asked not to cover their face , hands and feet during Hajj. Men are also forbidden to cover heads with any cap etc.

There are three different types of Hajj.

•  Hajj-e-Tammatu
•  Hajj-e-Kiraan
•  Hajj-e-Ifrad.

 The way of performing Haj is almost same but these types differ depending on how long a particular person will remain in Ihram. Let us see the different ways to wear Ihram.

Hajj-e-Tammatu:

If pilgrim has intention to perform this Haj then, he should wear separate Ihram for the Haj and the Umrah. Most of the Muslims perform Haj by this method.

Hajj-e-Kiraan:

In this particular type , only one Ihram is worn for both Haj and Umrah.

Hajj-e-Ifrad:

This is most rewarding way to perform Haj. One has to wear Ihram just for the Haj.

Different people perform Haj according to way that suits them.  Any Muslim who travel with the intention of Hajj perform different acts in 5 days. The first step is to wear Ihram on specified place.  A man is supposed to remove all stitched clothes and cover himself with two white long pieces of cloth. One piece is used to  cover legs and lower abdomen and other piece covers the upper part of body while one shoulder is left naked. Females wear normal dress. Then pilgrims travel to Makkah to perform Umrah. After Umrah pilgrims head towards Mina.

Mina:

Pilgrims stay in Mina at the night. Mina is situated 5 km to the east of the Makkah. Mina almost covers an area of 20 square kilometer. This city comes to life during Haj (pilgrimage) when it hosts 100,000 people temporarily in air-conditioned big tents. These tents have accommodation for large number of pilgrims under them. In this picture you can see white rows on back side , that is Mina. Those white rows are of tents. In the morning after prayer(Fajar) all the pilgrims move towards Arafat. Image is taken from Arab news.

Arafah:

This marks second day of Haj on 9^th of Zil-Haj (Islamic calendar). This is the most important act and day in Haj. If any pilgrim do not join on this day, the Haj does not remain valid. All day the pilgrims stay in a wide , barren ground.  Pilgrims pray from God and ask for forgiveness of the sins and pray for mercy from God. They regret their sins and decide not to repeat them. The pilgrims repent and turn to God. 

People pray near Jabal-e-Rehmat (the Mount of Mercy). Jabal-e-Rehmat is a  granite hill which is situated in the plain of Arafat. This is the place where the Prophet of Islam, Muhammad ( may peace be upon him) delivered his last Sermon. It is believed that on this day of last sermon God completed the religion of Islam for Muslims. God completed the revelation of Holy book Quran and offered the religion of Islam for the people of the world.  This is most important rite of the Hajj. Later there is sermon from Masjid-e-Nimrah and Muslims offer two prayers of the day together ; the prayer for noon and after noon, these prayers are offered at noon time. On the day of Arafah, a pilgrim is considered to be Standing in front of God. It is the most significant day of Haj. After sunset pilgrims leave Arafat for Muzdalifah without offering their Magrib (evening) prayer.

Muzdalifah:

Then all the pilgrims leave Arafah and move towards Muzdalifah. It is situated at the distance of 8-km from Arafah. The pilgrims are taken from Arafah to Muzdalifah by buses and  trains and many walk till Muzdalifah , where they spend all night under sky and cannot take shelter under cover. This is a vast ground where all night people stay after offering their prayer for Magrib(Evening) and Eshaa (Night) together and afterwards the pilgrims take rest and sleep.

Devil’s Stoning:

After spending night here, the pilgrims leave for Mina to throw stones at devil(Satan) in morning. This stoning of Devil takes place at Jamrat. It is also named as Ramy al- Jamrat. The pilgrims collect pebbles from Muzdalifah to throw on shatan.  The stoning of Satan (Jamrat al-'Aqabah ) is done on 10^th of Zil-Haj. The pilgrims have to stone three shatans at Jamrat. Each devil is stoned with seven pebbles. This stoning of three Jamaraat is done for three consecutive days on 11^th and 12^th of Zil-Haj, and also on 13^th of Zil-Haj, if the pilgrim did not leave Mina then stoning must be finished before noon. Hair can be cut or shaved and nails are clipped after stoning of Jamaraat. 

Sacrifice:

When pilgrims are done with stoning , they move on to the next step of slaughtering of animals to commemorate the sacrifice by Prophet Abraham and his son Prophet Ismail. Once slaughtering is done on the 10^th of Zil-Haj by trained people on specific places, the meat is then sent to needy or poor people  around the world as a charity.

When the sacrifice is being done in Makkah during Haj, Muslims from all over the world also observe and perform the sacrifice at their homes. The slaughtering around the world takes places during three days and the universal event is called Eid-al-Adha. This is a day of festivity for all Muslims around the world.

Hair cut:

After the sacrifice of the animals,  pilgrims shave their heads and females trim their hair, by an inch from the tip.

Tawaf :

On same day pilgrims again visit Haram (Grand Mosque in Makkah) and do Tawaf al-Ifadah (farewell Circumambulation  of the Kaaba). This Tawaf has its significance and indicates that pilgrims respond to will of God. The pilgrims return back to Mina contented with the fact that they are almost around the corner. 

After the stoning for three consective days pilgrims go for Tawaf al-Wida, before returning to their homes. This Tawaf indicates the farewell.

The Haj ends with these rituals and the state and obligation of Ihram ends here. Pilgrims can use perfume or perfumed products like; soap , shampoo. tissues, creams etc. But intimate intercourse is still forbidden until the end of last Tawaf. Pilgrims sleep in Mina on 11^th ,12^th and 13^th of Zil-Haj.  

Pilgrims emphasize on more worship during Arafat and cry during prayers and ask for forgiveness , as it marks the most significant of all days during Haj.

Allah was happy with His prophet Ibrahim and his son Prophet Ismail and during the hajj  Muslims from all over world remember and revive the sacrifice of the Prophet and his son. The pilgrims then go to Madinah, the place where our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessing be upon him) lived after migrating from Makkah. The place where he lived, died and then was buried. Visit to Madinah is not part of Haj but when Muslims travel till Makkah then they deem it necessary to visit the place of their beloved Prophet.  They walk in the streets he had walked years ago. People say him their salaam.

Here you can check special coverage of Haj by english.alarabia.net.

Teachings:

The annual event of Hajj teaches us a lot of good deeds,  some of the benefits are as follows;

• It teaches the brotherhood to Muslims.
• It stands for equality of mankind. It teaches that all human beings have no difference on the basis of the color , race or tribe.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: O people! Verily your Lord is One and your father (Adam) is one. An Arab is not better than a non-Arab, and a non-Arab is not better than an Arab; a white man is not better than a black man and a black man is not better than a white man – except in piety (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 22391; al-Silsilat al-Saheeh, 2700).

•  It teaches us human rights. When there is  world’s largest spiritual congregation to perform ritual prayers, everyone have to be careful about other. It also indicates the unity of Muslims.
• It teaches us that the doors of mercy of God are never closed.
• It helps to strengthen faith.
• Muslims also remember Doom’s Day when all human beings will be standing in front of God , waiting for their turn to know their result.

If the Haj becomes mabroor ( accepted) then pilgrim return home without the burden of sins on their shoulders and Allah grant them  forgiveness and make them pure and innocent.

These rituals of Islam have an everlasting effect on each of its believer and influence their lives in every single possible way. This is a season to bring good in after life. This is best time to turn to Allah by submission , obedience of his commands, by performing good deeds, repentance of our sins and by asking for forgiveness and trying to run away from sins as far as you can. 

It is necessary the recite the Talbiyyah during this trip : 

"Labbayka-Allahummma labbayk, Labbayka laa shareeka laka labbayk. Innal-Hamda wanni'mata laka wal-Mulk, laa shareeka lak!" 

"Here I am O Allah! Here I am! Here I am, there is no partner for you, here I am! Surely, all praise, blessings, and dominion are for You. There is no partner for you!" 

I took this from Here. 

This is very nice video that shows how to perform Hajj ( in 120 Sec.) The video is in Arabic but you can have idea about the rituals. 

Hajj is something really amazing and the feelings can not be experienced just by reading a post. You need to have spirit to visit and what you can experience personally is beyond description. The feelings that you have during these few days and before coming for Haj and after when you are leaving are amazing. The feelings totally change your way of life , you way of thinking and your attitude towards life. It is a wonderful experience of life. According to Arab News 2 million ‎Muslims have arrived Makkah,Saudi Arabia to perform Haj this year 2013, there are 1.4 million people who traveled from abroad. 

Many are performing Hajj now a days and I pray for them that, May God accept their Ibadah and give a chance to every Muslim to visit this place at least once in life time. 

May Allah accept our prayers and forgive our sins. 

Note:

Any local or international Haj pilgrim, coming for Haj, is asked to take vaccination against meningitis.

I have some very helpful links here that will help you through this journey.

Tips to follow before Hajj.

Here females can check few Guidelines for Hajj.

The thing you need to carry with you for Hajj. 

What you need to take to.

Here you can check a nice experience from a pilgrim.

Teachings of Hajj.

Better avoid.

For some amazing photos check this.

The images are taken from;

http://jstours.com/article.php?aid=steps

http://friendsofdeoband.wordpress.com/2012/09/07/takbir-and-talbiyah-during-the-days-of-mina-and-arafah/

http://quranforkids.com/Media/Pictures/tabid/237/SelectedModuleid/592/SelectedTab/237/RefTab/237/ItemID/1545/AlbumID/70/Default.aspx

http://www.kapl-hajj.org/train.php

http://www.eranos.freeserve.co.uk/reweb/islam/IS10.htm

Facebook page of Arab News.